Humanity

People always have deep experience in negative feelings, but hesitate in positive ones. It's very strange. I sometimes doubt that human is a kind of animal enjoying in self-torture. 
Isn't it?  I have some thought on this phenomenon. 

If some negative feelings come, like sadness, worries, anxieties or disappointments in love,  we always can feel and experience the whole process. Even the tiny things can touch the weak mind.

Well..but on the contrary.. 
If some positive feelings happen, we always try to make us clear and hesitate. 
Is it weird? Yeah! so weird!!  Just like a self-maltreated patient rather living in the tragedy than embracing the happiness.. 

I think it is totally irrelevant to the humanity, and it is regarding the confendence. We can not always live in the peace and happy world.  But there is always a small corner, maybe someone or doing something, can comfort ourselves. If we want to be a easygoing person, we first need to accept the gap between the "bad mood" and "great mood", and accept the care and good thing around ourselves. Maybe we always feel bad in working, studying or families.  But maybe some person, like boyfriend, girlfriend, or something else, can warm our minds and give the stable feelings.

What we should do is ...no hesitate, and give feeback properly and confedently.
Sharing is not a easy thing, but that is really a secret to make our life easier.